The Difference a Dad Makes Ep. 1 - The Importance of Mentors & Role Models

In the premiere episode of The Difference a Dad Makes, Dr. Jennifer Baker and cohost J. Fotsch welcome Brian Mattson, lead pastor at the Downtown Church and father of two, to discuss the critical role of fathers, mentors and role models in shaping lives. This engaging conversation explores the profound impact dads have on their children not just in their presence but through their actions, stability and support. Brian shares personal experiences of fatherhood, the challenges and rewards of parenting young children and the importance of being an active and intentional father. The episode also highlights how mentors and male role models can step in to fill gaps for those without a father figure, offering guidance, accountability and a positive example. Listeners will gain insights into the unique contributions dads make to their children’s emotional, social and developmental well-being as well as practical advice for fostering meaningful relationships. Whether you're a dad, mentor or simply curious about the difference a father can make, this episode sets the stage for a yearlong exploration of fatherhood's transformative power. Episode Highlights •03:54 - "Early research on dads focused on what happens when you don’t have a dad. Now we’re looking at what dads bring to the parenting equation that kids don’t get from their moms."  •05:22 - "What’s the difference a dad makes? Another parent is available to take the stress off the other parent. When moms do better, babies do better."  •08:06 - "Dads provide a unique stability, especially in the teenage years. Having a father around gives kids someone to report to, which creates accountability."  •12:30 - "I remember a mentor who valued my opinions and thoughts, treated me like a co-equal, and helped me solve problems. That always stuck with me."  •18:00 - "Most of the guys in our New Pathways program grew up without strong male role models. For many, it’s the first time they’ve met a man who genuinely cared about them."  Resources Sign up for the Good Dads Newsletter and never miss a podcast!  Learn more about at gooddads.com  Questions or comments? Reach out to Good Dads at [email protected].