Building a Safe Marriage, Finding Authentic Community, The Power of Mentorship - w/ Mike & Holly Worley

In today's episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron interviews Mike and Holly Worley, founders of Spark Discipleship. High school sweethearts who have been married for 16 years, they share their journey through the challenges of early marriage, healing from past trauma, and discovering the power of authentic community. With three children and a passion for discipleship, the Worleys candidly discuss the mistakes they made and the lessons they learned about building a thriving marriage centered on Christ.In this vulnerable conversation, we explore:How being a safe person for your spouse creates space for healing from past traumaThe three critical mistakes many couples make early in marriage that can limit growthWhy simply attending church isn't enough—true commitment means active participationThe difference between having friends and having authentic Christian communityPractical steps for finding and pursuing mentorship from older, wiser couplesHow marriage becomes richer and deeper through years of sanctification togetherThe importance of walking alongside others in their struggles rather than trying to fix themWhy healthy marriages are meant to be disciple-making partnershipsThe healing process that happens when couples work through past trauma togetherHow vulnerability and honesty open the door to genuine connection and growthWhether you're newly married, struggling with past trauma, feeling isolated in your faith journey, or simply wanting to strengthen your marriage, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for becoming a disciple-making couple.Please subscribe to our channel on YouTube, iTunes, or Spotify and leave us a star rating and review to help us reach new listeners. Your support and feedback mean the world to us!Connect with Mike & Holly Worley:Website: sparkdiscipleship.comFree Resources: "Five Practices of a Thriving Marriage," "Weekly Huddle Guide," and "Investing Spiritually in Your Spouse"Ministry: Helping couples build thriving marriages through church commitment, authentic community, and mentorshipFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After God - https://www.instagram.com/marriageaftergodInstagram: Unveiled Wife - https://www.instagram.com/unveiledwifeInstagram: Husband Revolution - https://www.instagram.com/husbandrevolutionSupport this podcast:Shop: https://shop.marriageaftergod.com/Become a patron: https://marriageaftergod.com/patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2025KEY WORDS: Marriage After God, Aaron Smith, Mike Worley, Holly Worley, marriage mentorship, authentic community, church commitment, healing from trauma, safe relationships, biblical marriage, disciple-making couples, Spark Discipleship, marriage discipleship, Christian community, marriage sanctificationSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/marriageaftergod/donations