137: Navigating Challenges with Responsive Parenting: Tips from Liz Luize

There are as many ways to parent as there are parents in the world, but is there a “right” way to parent. Of course that answer is no, but there are definitely ways to parent that help meet your children where they are. Both developmentally and emotionally. No matter what, parenting is hard, but sometimes it’s easier to navigate those challenges with responsive parenting. Liz Luize is an educator, daycare owner, and M.Ed in Learning, Cognition, and Development. After becoming a mom, she found her mission to empower parents with research-driven insights to boost their children’s cognitive and emotional growth. Through her Instagram page, she offers a blend of scientifically-backed parenting tips and real talk, dedicated to nurturing the holistic development of tiny humans.  Listen as Liz shares more about what responsive parenting is, what it isn’t, how she’s applied it both at home and in the classroom, and how it compares to some of the other parenting styles you hear about. Again, there is no one right way to parent and we’re all going to make mistakes. So no matter what style of parenting you choose to employ, give yourself, and your children, grace.    In this episode, we discuss:  What responsive parenting is How parents can strike a balance between setting boundaries and being responsive to their child’s needs in discipline The differences between gentle parenting, permissive parenting, and responsive parenting Tips on how to foster open and empathetic communication with children Resources:  “How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk” by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish - https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Kids-Will-Listen/dp/1451663889 “Good Inside” Dr. Becky Kennedy - https://www.amazon.com/Good-Inside/dp/0008505543/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1699973848&sr=1-1 “The Whole Brain Child” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson - https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/B0B94JC2TN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3DTNXAZFNDPQ5&keywords=the+whole+brain+child+by+daniel+siegel&qid=1699973880&s=books&sprefix=the+whole+brain+child+by+%2Cstripbooks%2C92&sr=1-1 “No-Drama Discipline” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson - https://www.amazon.com/No-Drama-Discipline-audiobook/dp/B00NQAW77K/ref=sr_1_1?crid=EEG23AHU69G4&keywords=no+drama+discipline&qid=1699973906&s=audible&sprefix=no+drama+discipline%2Caudible%2C78&sr=1-1 Join Liz’s Newsletter - https://parentingcharlie.myflodesk.com/jointhenewsletter Liz’s Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/parentingcharlie/ Discount Codes from Our Sponsors:  Navy Hair Care Shampoo + Conditioner: use code LYNZY for 30% off - https://bit.ly/3ABupeN Navy Hair Care Charcoal Mask: use code LYNZY for 30% off - https://bit.ly/2USHdNC Thrive Market: 30% off your first order plus a $60 Free Gift - https://thrivemarket.com/lynzy Athletic Greens - AG1 - https://www.drinkag1.com/lynzy - Free One Year Supply of Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs Questions: Can you tell us a bit about your journey in parenting and how you got into exploring different parenting styles? What does "responsive discipline" mean to you, and how does it differ from more traditional disciplinary approaches? Can you share some examples of how you've applied responsive discipline in your own parenting journey with Charlie? How can parents strike a balance between setting boundaries and being responsive to their child's needs in discipline? Many parents may confuse gentle parenting with permissive parenting. Could you clarify the key differences between the two? What are the potential advantages of practicing gentle parenting, and what are some common misconceptions about it? How do you handle situations where it might be challenging to be gentle while still maintaining necessary boundaries? Effective communication is often a cornerstone of gentle parenting. Can you share some tips on fostering open and empathetic communication with children? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices