167 – Don't Cry! 3 Unexpected Consequences of Encouraging Our Kids Not to Cry

Whether it’s the tears at dropoff or a teenage meltdown, it can be tempting to tell our kids they shouldn’t cry because “there’s nothing to be scared of” or “it’s not a big deal.” I’ve been there - crying isn’t fun for anyone. But from a nervous system perspective, what are we actually teaching our kids when we encourage them not to cry, i.e., reward them for suppressing their emotions? In today’s episode, you’ll learn 3 unexpected long-term and developmental consequences ...