229: Stepmom With Hers, His, And Ours Kids

In this episode, Lori Sims, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Kim. Kim has been blending for nine years, has two bio kids, three stepkids, and one ours kid. The stepkids are with her and her husband full-time. The first few years of the blend, the kids got along great! Things got difficult. Kim’s bio daughter clashed with Kim’s husband. Things got so bad, her daughter decided to go live with her bio dad.  In this episode, we discuss the following: Having the stepkids full-time When your bio kid and partner clash Playing tit for tat When your bio kid decides to live with their other parent What her parents said versus what she heard Nacho Kids Academy Nacho Parenting Success Story: “When I became part of the Nacho Academy, it wasn’t out by choice. My wife would play the courses aloud so I couldn’t help but hear them. I tell you what, I’ve never heard anyone in my life make more sense about why stepfamilies struggle so much. I started looking forward to hearing the courses. One day, it t clicked with me and my wife why we were struggling so much! We hadn’t grieved our “nuclear dreams” as Lori calls them. With guidance from Lori & Dave, we grieved those nuclear dreams and set realistic blended family dreams, which are none. Lori always says, you need to let go of those blended family expectations, they are only causing you disappointment. We can’t recommend the Academy enough! It really is life changing!” ~ B.C.